Love gives freedom
Here follows a section about human love from "Love is like a bird in the sky". (Osho publications). It illustrates why we shouldn't lock up animals either. Love gives freedom. Love that doesn't give freedom, is not love.
Love versus the lust for power
Love is not thirst for power. How can you dominate someone you love? How can you make him dependent and still be loving? But what happens in the world in the name of love is something else: the lust for power, wanting to control others. Of course independence is inadmissible then. You do everything to make the other identical to yourself.
You are afraid of the other person's freedom, because freedom escapes control and freedom is unpredictable. So all so-called love tries to kill freedom in any way it can - and as soon as freedom is destroyed, love dies.
The fragility of love and freedom
Love is very fragile, like a rose. You have to allow her to dance in the rain, in the wind, in the sun. Love is like a bird in the sky, and its freedom occupies all of the sky. You can catch the bird, you can put it in a magnificent gilded cage, and it only appears to be the same bird that flew free and had the sky to itself.
It just appears to be, but it's not: you have killed it. You have clipped its wings. You have taken its sky from it. And birds do not care for your gold - no matter how precious your cage is, it is still a prison.
From love to gilded cages
And this is what we do with our love: we create gilded cages. We are afraid, for the sky is immeasurable. There is a fear the bird won't return. In order to control it, it must be imprisoned. And love is changed into marriage. Love is a bird in the sky: marriage is a bird in a gilded cage. And of course the bird can never forgive you. You've destroyed all its beauty, joy, and freedom. You've broken its spirit - it's nothing but a dead imitation now. But you've assured yourself of one thing: it cannot escape, it will always be yours, tomorrow and the day after. |