Summarized in a model
Being aware of wrongs in industrial farming does not always have to lead to the choice of becoming a vegan, especially if weighing the pros and cons turns out unfavorably.
It may be that people think vegan food does not taste good, that it's all to no avail anyway, because they are afraid of other people's opinions, or because people think that the authorities should do something first.
The considerations described before are all part of the attitude behavior model, well known and often used in psychology to interpret human behavior (Fishbein & Ajzen).
Schematically and in steps:
- Knowledge and understanding of wrongs make people think or feel.
- a) Pros and cons of current eating behavior and of alternatives people see are weighed more or less consciously.
b) The opinions of significant others (e.g. partner, friends, teachers, neighbors, parents, authorities) are assessed or asked and weighed.
- If this weighing turns out in favor of alternative behavior, the person will resolve to show this alternative behavior.
- At the same time an opinion is formed about one's own responsibility and effectiveness. If that also turns out positively, the chance of changing one's behavior is fair. If it doesn't turn out positive, people might change their views, but they just don't do anything with them.
- People that decide to give the alternative behavior a try, gain experience which again leads to a modification of the - considerations of the - deliberations behind the decision.
Influencing other people's decision
Understanding the other person's position
If you are a vegan and want to convince others, it is important to know at what stage of the decision-making process that person is. Has he been correctly informed?
Is his behavior on par with his convictions? If not, then the chance of someone feeling attacked when confronted, and counter-attacking is very real. In that case it is more effective to have an open attitude and express a lot of confirmations towards the other, to create an atmosphere in which he feels safe to voice his doubts.
Social norms and role models
Social standards and pressure are effective for young and old. The role of parents in this process is ambiguous. If an adolescent wants to oppose his parents, he will do the exact opposite of what they do. If the relationship is better, then he will copy eating habits.
Role models are people who are important examples to others. In youth culture we are familiar with straight-edgers, who share a vegan and all-over sober lifestyle and certain musical preferences. On the other hand, too much conspicuousness leads to stigmatization that can restrain the adoption of convictions. A "Mohawk" is not easily taken seriously by a "Suit".
Realistic expectations
"Making" someone into a vegan is almost impossible.
It's easier for a start (but difficult enough) to make people aware that you cannot just shamelessly use animals.
It is no use trying to convince someone to start living like a vegan if the distance to that other lifestyle is great. The vegan has to consider that he may be right, maybe he will even be put in the right, but today's society offers very little to make vegan living attractive yet. Being or remaining patient is essential. |